Relationship finding Compass Questions…pointing to what really matters.
The 5 Compass Questions that help you find a great partner.
Actually these questions lead you to a place where the love of your life will find you.
Use these questions by asking yourself the questions as a practice.
(Ask them over and over and Listen for the answers).
Then follow that path. The path of your heart.
Use the question that resonates with you or the situation most.
Everybody is lovable. You matter!
Have you heard the saying “You must first love yourself before you can love another?”
Good news. It is not true.
Anyone can love.
When I was younger I was very hard on myself, but I loved my daughter unconditionally.
As you love yourself better you can love better!
Better news; the more you love yourself, the healthier, more dynamic, and delicious the relationships become.
The most important relationship is with Yourself!
When your relationship with yourself is great and when you have developed deep Self-Compassion… Every relationship you have will get better.
How would the nicest person I know talk to me?
Listen for the answer and practice replacing your old voice with this new voice.
We have been programmed, and we are the programmer. Start programming this new voice in, and don’t worry if there are set-backs.
Optional How would the nicest person I have ever heard about treat me? (Channel their answers)
Is there any GOOD reason not to Fully love myself? (Just sit with this please)
Find your own answer.
I will share the true answer….Love yourself Always…act from this place and anyone you have “wronged” will benefit from this love.
Let go of guilt, shame, and blame.
How do I love myself best in this situation?
Be your own best ally. Put your love oxygen mask on first. Otherwise you will pass out spewing mean things, and wake up wondering why all the frowny faces.
Do what you are passionate about. When you do what you are passionate about you are more ALIVE.
Aliveness is ATTRACTIVE.
Start hanging around great people.
Give to a greater cause.
Have a purpose and passion at work and/or in you free time. And is better than or. J
What would Love do?
This question really encompasses them all.
When I first found the question, I sent it to my daughters mother (we stopped living together when my daughter was 3) I thought it would FIX her. It is funny now (LOL) back then I wanted the world to behave in a certain way so I could be happy.
I eventually asked the question for myself many times. A common answer for me…Love wouldn’t do that…some petty thing I wanted to do that felt good in the moment…
Love Answers…yes, Love answered me …”Love would love and if you behave poorly or sorely Love will still love you.” (meaning me) It was quite nice to hear that I would be loved even when I was petty.
When you want to use harsh words or send the angry email…ask the question; What would Love do?
Will I die if I ask for clarification or tell the Truth?
If you don’t want to lose someone who is a player…then maybe you need to play, but honesty is refreshing. It can feel dangerous because sometimes we are scared of the answer.
There is great freedom in the Truth.
What is common in most romantic movies? A Misunderstanding!
Ask for clarification before you scream at him for loving his hamster Frank more than you.
Have fun, be passionate and really Live and Love.
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Lots and Lots of Love,
Chris
